Holding back on the big magic

It’s time to stop comparing yourself with what you see others doing.

You don’t need to be fixed or healed.

You just need to get back on track with your desire and your purpose.

And I can help.

But first I want to share honestly with you about my own journey down this same laneway of comparison. How I have held myself back and questioned it ALL.


And not just once. Many times over.

I’ve always been clear and confident that I am here to serve. I am confident in my ability to produce amazing life and business altering results. I go deep with clients and yet I also provide super practical tools and training to ensure the deep work translates into real world results.

I know the value of my work.

Sort of.

You see, I’ve been successful in business and yet, in all honesty the scale of my success is TINY. The vision I hold within and have held within for years is MASSIVE. It is much larger than what I have created. So far.

So it would seen I’ve held the BIG desire and the BIG vision within.

I’ve been unpacking the whys. There are a few reasons for holding back and holding what I have within. Here are the top three I’ve uncovered for me.

One is investing too much time in comparison. Yup. Yucky comparison. It feels crappy and it is crappy. Thinking I am researching the competition when really what I am doing is keeping myself playing the wrong game. Time spent researching what others offer is time NOT spent creating what is within me.

Two is family and balancing business with babies. This one I’m totally ok with. Sure I’ve suffered mamma guilt and I’ve learnt to balance business and babies sometimes well, but most times perfectly imperfectly. In my ten years of being in business I’ve also given birth to 3 babies. That means less time and less energy for birthing and growing within my business.

Three is giving away my power. Thinking others have something or know something that I do not. This leads to investing heavily into learning more, to be more, to have more. Literally buying into the illusion that as I am, I am not enough. This is total bullshit, of course. Yet this pattern is rampant amongst female entrepreneurs looking externally for answers instead of tapping into their own truth. I wrote about copycatting your mentor recently here.

So back to reason one, comparison.

Here’s how it has looked for me. I scroll through my Facebook news feed and come across a message that grabs my attention. I read more, perhaps click through. I’m impressed and inspired at first. It could be a website, an opt-in, a video… the ones that get me most hooked into comparison tend to be very aligned with my own message. The comparison cloud rolls over and has me questioning my own work, and often has me feeling that I should be doing MORE.

We are often looking for some kind of acceptance or a reflection that our own message and truth is of interest to people. We see another soul share a similar truth and instead of receiving the reflection of acceptance we instead take a negative approach of condemning ourselves for not sharing first. 


The truth. We all have unique and amazing skills, messages and desires.

Right now the world is going through great change.

Systems are crumbling. New paradigms are emerging.

Many of us are receiving intuitive hits and strong desires to be part of this change. To share powerful messages. To lead others through changing times.

But we choose whether we ACTION such desires.

When we see another sharing powerfully and participating in the change, perhaps even leading the change, we have choice. We can compare and waste our precious time. OR we can get inspired and move into creating our own magic.

Choose well.

It’s time to be a part of these amazing change filled times.

Lead the change. Be the change.

Create. Share. Lead.

I can help.

My bold declaration. I can help you OWN your talents, brand your magic, roll out effective marketing that grows your client base and your business, make YOUR mark on the world. Create your Soulful Empire.

That is my desire. My vision. My purpose.

So, if you too are here to create change and business is your path how about you stop waiting, stop comparing, and get into inspired action to make it HAPPEN.

Reach out today if it’s time for us to connect.

We can start with an honest review of your situation.

At the least you’ll walk away with my feedback feeling inspired and clear. And if we are a good fit, you’ll invest in your business (affordably), COMMIT to your vision and get my help.

Your PROFITABLE Soulful Empire is ready for you to say YES.